Ryder, Lillian R. On October 23, 2007, in South Bend, Indiana, Lillian R. Ryder, devoted wife of the late Charles A. Ryder, Sr., beloved mother of Charles A. Ryder, Jr., and his wife Joy and Deborah A. Mueller and her husband Glenn, loving grandmother of Edward, Michael, Kevin, Lisa and Kimberly, dear great-grandmother of Haley. Family and Friends are invited to call at St. Stephen Lutheran Church, 901 Courtney Road, Arbutus, MD 21227 on Saturday, October 27th from 10 AM to 12:15 with the funeral service at 12:30. Interment Glen Haven Memorial Park. In lieu of flowers contributions to St. Stephen Lutheran Church will be appreciated.